Too much talking is distracting, a nuisance & boring.
I'll toss out "Fuck me", "Harder", "Oh papi" every so often.. But I'm not gonna be like "Oh yeah, shove that dick deeper into my pussy".
I'd rather my guy make sounds, not speak about what he's doing.
Same here I think some convo is ok but not too much. Ive had a partner who was always silent during sex and it made me feel like mky sex was bad because the only thing he would say is "bae Im about to cum.." that was it. He would always reassure me but it was still wierd.
Maaaan...I hate hearing the same phrase being repeated especially if it's something that sounds silly to me. "Oh that's MY dick. This YOUR pussy!" gtfoh!!!! Find something new to say please....or just hush while I'm working,mkay? @ aisha, I understand the being silent part from a man's pov. I used to feel silly speaking or moaning during sex as if it meant I was pretending to be a pornstar or something. Seriously moaning is a bit pretendtious with me though.(shrugs) & sorry if my two cents here weren't wanted...interesting topic.
I can be vocal at times, so when I'm with someone who has a mouth like I do, it's a turn on. I must say there are times when I enjoy a shit talker. But only if they can back it up. Don't ask me to scream ya name if what you're doin isn't scream worthy.
Maaaan...I hate hearing the same phrase being repeated especially if it's something that sounds silly to me. "Oh that's MY dick. This YOUR pussy!" gtfoh!!!! Find something new to say please....or just hush while I'm working,mkay? @ aisha, I understand the being silent part from a man's pov. I used to feel silly speaking or moaning during sex as if it meant I was pretending to be a pornstar or something. Seriously moaning is a bit pretendtious with me though.(shrugs) & sorry if my two cents here weren't wanted...interesting topic.
THATS WHAT HE SAID!!! LOL. he would always say its not like we're making porn.lol.
lmao....unless there's some sort of story line, I hit the mute button on porn. Shit sounds ridiculous.
Lmao.
That shit was annoying when I watched straight porn.. Lol.
Real, every day women, don't need a play-by-play of what is going on during sex.. We don't need to be told you're fucking our pussy, we can feel it and see it if we so wish.
And I'm with Aisha on the quiet thing.. I *hate* a man that makes absolutely no noise whatsoever.
I had one guy who didn't moan, grunt, or speak during sex & the whole time I felt like I was doing something wrong.
If the guy I'm fucking is moaning, I know I'm doing a good job (or at least hope so).
A guy moaning also turns me on more than anything.. Him moaning is my "foreplay" (since I detest foreplay).
I told my guy a few days ago that I love the little moans he makes when I'm giving him head.. He apparently never once noticed he did that which made me feel special & he said it was amazing that I even noticed it.
@ mr.choklit I fast forward alot during porn I get bored too easily. And Msnatt I understand what your saying. If a guy doesnt want to talk thats fine but moan or something. But I cant agree with the fourplay thing because I love it I think thats the best part other than the inital feeling of a man stretching you out (especially when yu havent had sex in a while)...
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